Your Sexuality is the Portal to Your Next Life (Seriously)
- Evelyne Toromanian (La plume pigmentée)

- Nov 14, 2025
- 3 min read
I had a burning question for years regarding my transmission on Sexuality in my business. I didn’t see myself as a pleasure or sexual/love coach. I do love the idea of doing a boudoir photoshoot as an embodiment of my erotic expression—just for my own pleasure, not necessarily for my business or the world.
However, I don’t understand or resonate with women leaders showing up in lingerie or in suggestive poses. I do love pleasure, sensuality, eroticism, and passion as a form of living ART, not as unresolved traumas that push our egos to be seen and exposed, only to claim attention and not for purpose. Deep inside, you know when this is coming from Presence or from Pushing for attention.
I see sexuality as our true self-expression and freedom to be.
Sexuality is not about performance; it’s all about connection and presence.
This connection starts first within the SELF: who you truly are. Sexuality can be an amazing self-discovery and creative empowerment tool for you to create your reality!
This is the MIRROR—the one where you can see your deep shadows, where you are holding back your true expression, and how you are contracted in your energy or in a state of total orgasmic expansion.
I have been through different phases in my sexuality, and when I am in a deep life-changing transition, I can sense it in my intimacy. I can have no desire for sex, I can sense that it starts to become boring or always the same old things—the deadly known experience—while I deeply desire to live a more creative sexuality. Or my body starts to talk to me with mysterious symptoms, urging me to listen deeply to the secrets of my womb, etc.
Finally, what it’s all about is a new direction, a new desire: what’s next?
The embodiment of a new expression and the feeling of a new creation cycle. This always starts in the unknown. You can even have no clue, just saying, “I don’t know.” This is exactly where you need to be. Our next level sometimes doesn’t show up like a crystal-clear vision! That would be too easy! Sometimes, spirit is playful with us and delivers not images or tangible desires (for the visionaries that we are), but only a feeling—an elevated emotion that makes us smile from the inside out.
This is like a thread to follow... A North Star!

In my one-to-one mentoring “Orgasmic Creation,” we are diving deep into your sexuality and your sexual energy as your next embodied expression. Sexuality is a doorway to embody and express a totally new version of who you truly are. From this new identity, new desires, new fantasies, and a new erotic expression can naturally birth in your most true, authentic, bold self. This will have an impact on your business, your art, and your reality.
When your sexuality expression flows, your creative vision flows!
Through the years, I have seen some of my clients totally blocked in their artist life, their business, their creative project (oracle, writing, speaking events etc.) or their love life—then living a radical change of their reality, like they have shifted timelines and entered into a totally new dimension.
Your sexuality is a portal to your new life.
Let’s open this portal together.
In service to your pleasure—the true one, the one that comes from the self!
I will be your pleasure partner, and we will have serious, elevated conversations on your intimacy that will open up totally new possibilities in your sex life, your art, and your business!
During our 1:1 sessions, I love creating a 1-Day Experience for my client to embody the next version of themselves. I call it the Orgasmic Day, where you will choose what turns you on the most.
This can be a deep transformational process with a luxury spa in the south of France, an “eat pasta & paint” process in Florence (Italy), or a boudoir photoshoot with one of my amazing connected photographers in the UK.
Let’s have a deep talk to discover your inner calling,
Evelyne
💡 Two Possibilities to Connect Deeper
If this message resonates with you, here are two possibilities to go deeper and bring this presence into your Art and Business :
The Creation Lab’ : Join The Artist is Present micro-collective https://www.evelynetoromanian.com/en/theartistispresentlaboratoiredecreation
The Orgasmic Creation Cycle - A 6 months 1to1 mentoring : For the Artists & Creative Leaders who are SO READY for their next level expression in their Art, Business & Sexuality




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