I want to break free
- Evelyne Toromanian (La plume pigmentée)

- 6 days ago
- 3 min read
Yesterday when I wrote my newsletter, I observed myself holding back from the truth.
I was afraid of what people would think of me if I shared my vision on Pleasure Coaches showing up for their businesses in Lingerie.
I was afraid to be ‘old school,’ while I honor the freedom to be for each individual and truly believe that this is amazing as a woman to be able to show up and express herself through her sacred body.
However, as a conscious leader, I also want to have elevated conversations with you and not to share exactly what 99% of the market is expressing right now.
The truth is that sometimes our exposure is not alive; it is coming from our wounds to be seen, to ‘have a voice,’ to compensate for a lack of external validation in our business, and not from a driven purpose, from presence, from passion, from Aliveness.
WHY are we doing what we are doing and from which part of us is this coming from?
So, writing this yesterday made me realize that I am not here to be understood, I am here to elevate our consciousness by sharing what is the most true for me, and you are not either.
Living from presence is a path of deep freedom.

I want to be clear here. We are not attracting the same quality of client when this act of exposure is coming from the EGO as when it’s coming from Presence. You either attract people who match your wounds to be seen, or you attract people who match your frequency, and with whom you deeply feel at home.
This is the same thing with your love relationship and your sexual life.
You either attract a man who matches your intimate wounds, or you attract a conscious man who matches your frequency and with whom you feel at home!
When you meet someone with a high level of attraction, it is often your nervous system being excited by what it is acknowledging and feel so familiar – The Bound Trauma. The real connection is not loud: it is silent, it is wisdom, it is knowing that you are at home and your whole system feels relaxed and released.
If you feel that something is off in your sexuality with your partner, trust your gut.
You may be sensing a wound connection, and deep inside YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT TO DO. Sometimes, as you are a powerful Creator, you convince yourself to do more inner transformation to make it work. However, deep down you know that this was not meant to be. Something greater is possible and available for you, AND YOU KNOW IT. You need to let it go to manifest it. This is the same with your partner and your client.
This all business thing is all about love, soul partnering, and expressing who you truly are. This is why working on your business has an impact on your sexuality; working on your art has an impact on your business; working on your sexuality has an impact on your art; working on your energy has an impact on every dimension of your ecosystem.
Transform your energy... Transform your life!

ART – SEXUALITY – BUSINESS – ENERGETICS
Those are the 4 pillars we are addressing in the Orgasmic Creation 1:1 Mentoring.
A dive into the fullest expression of who you truly are. Working in one-to-one during 6 months is for Artists, Leaders, and Visionaries who are SO READY for a quantum leap, to shift timelines, to embody the empowered vision that they have for their Business, their Art, and their Sexuality, and to express and live life at its fullest potential.
Stop holding yourself back.
Stop playing small.
Stop trying to attract your former self.
Instead, choose to break free.
Feel deeply released, free, and orgasmic!
It is time, NOW, to create the life you know in your DNA is your true destiny.
In service to your Greatest Expression,
Evelyne
PS : This entire newsletter has been inspired by Queen’s famous anthem, “I Want to Break Free.” That song isn’t just about a toxic relationship; it’s about choosing sovereignty. True freedom starts with a choice to break free from the compromises, the wounds, and the external expectations in your Art, your Business, and your Sexuality.
💡 Two Possibilities to Connect Deeper
If this message resonates with you, here are two possibilities to go deeper and bring this presence into your Art and Business :
The Creation Lab’ : Join The Artist is Present micro-collective https://www.evelynetoromanian.com/en/theartistispresentlaboratoiredecreation
The Orgasmic Creation Cycle - A 6 months 1to1 mentoring : For the Artists & Creative Leaders who are SO READY for their next level expression in their Art, Business & Sexuality




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